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What REALLY Happens When You Stop Dieting

What REALLY Happens When You Stop Dieting

Last year I read The F*ck It Diet by Caroline Dooner. This book changed my life y’all. It’s a book all about why diets don’t work in the long term, how they fuck up your brain and what to do instead. I highly recommend it if you’re interested in changing your relationship with food and your body.

So I took Caroline’s advice and....STOPPED DIETING.

So What Happened When I Stopped Dieting?!?!?

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Lessons I Learned From the First Year of Lionesse

Lessons I Learned From the First Year of Lionesse

Lionesse turns one year old this week! And wow, what a year it's been. So I thought I’d take a moment to both celebrate that we made it through the last year (!!!!!!!) and also to share some of the biggest things I learned from the first year of running Lionesse:

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Setting Boundaries & Listening to the Wisdom of Your Body with Phuong Thao Nguyen Macleod

Setting Boundaries & Listening to the Wisdom of Your Body with Phuong Thao Nguyen Macleod

This week’s interview is with embodiment coach and boundaries expert, Phuong Thao Nguyen Macleod.

Phuong Thao helps women of color reconnect with themselves, set healthy boundaries and honor the wisdom of their bodies.

She uses a mind-body approach to help women who have experienced personal or systemic trauma reconnect with their worthiness, wholeness and aliveness.

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How to Stop Blocking Your Own Power
Personal Development, Body Love, Feminism Olaiya Land Personal Development, Body Love, Feminism Olaiya Land

How to Stop Blocking Your Own Power

I don’t know about you but as we start seeing a glimmer of light at the end of this pandemic, I’m finding it harder and harder to just casually ride the Carona Coaster of emotional ups and downs. I WANT THIS SHIT TO BE OVER. Like yesterday.

As we marked one year of pandemic life, I started thinking about the ways the past year has left many of us feeling powerless. And how, when that sense of powerlessness is left unchecked, it has a way of creeping inward and transforming into hopelessness and depression. 

Here’s an example from my life: 

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Overcoming Internalized Racism & Celebrating Yourself
Community, Politics, Personal Development Olaiya Land Community, Politics, Personal Development Olaiya Land

Overcoming Internalized Racism & Celebrating Yourself

Hello! I hope you’re well and having a joyful Juneteenth!

I am taking the day today to celebrate simply being Black. Which is something I was never taught to celebrate. As a biracial kid growing up in a white family in a rural midwestern town in the 80s, having brown skin was a constant cause of confusion and sadness. My mom is blond with pale white skin. I was forever longing for her long, straight hair and blue eyes.

There were zero kids of color at my school. Think about that for a minute. No Asian kids. No Latinx kids. No Black kids. Just me.

With my curls that my mom didn’t know how to tame. And my “weird” Nigerian name. And my brown skin.

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